The days after Jared died are a blur. I can remember events but not sure of what day they happened. I'll do my best but will probably get things mixed up a little bit...
We were up early on Thursday. Mrs. Weaver, Jared's tutor, came by to see us. When she walked in we just hugged and cried. She stayed for a little while.
People dropped in, left food, gave hugs, let us know they cared.
We were waiting for Jared's body to arrive from Birmingham before we made final arrangements. Family members started making travel plans but were waiting for details. After meeting with Sherri from the funeral home, we decided the wake would be Saturday night and the funeral would be Sunday afternoon at 2:00.
Pastor Lynn was very helpful with arrangements. He helped us with selecting a funeral home as well as a local cemetery which is about a mile from our house. William and I were very thankful.
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I have so many thoughts of things to share but will end tonight with emails that I sent and received...
From: Lisa, William and Adam
Sent: April 11, 2002 12:36 p.m.
Subject: Jared
Hello everyone! I'm writing this from home. Jared died yesterday, April 10, 2002, at 5:22 p.m. He was surrounded by his loving family and in his dad's arms. Jared is a special son. We will miss him but we know that we will see him again one day. Thanks for ALL THE MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS that were sent our way. They have been a comfort to us. Sometimes we don't understand why things happen but "We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him..." God Bless All of You!
Love,
William, Lisa, Adam & JARED :)
From: Tiffany, Brianna and Jordan
Re: Jared
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know it is hard to find comfort in this horrible time but at least he is in a better place in heaven. You and your family are in our prayers. Love you all.
From: Josh C.
Re: Jared
Hey. How are ya'll doing. I'm sorry about Jared. Just remember that he is in a better place now. The church was praying for ya'll Wednesday. If you ever need anything don't forget that we are here and so is the church.
Yours Truly,
Josh
From: Bobbie
Re: Jared
I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family... I received the news from my sister (Rhonda). She has been keeping me informed about Jared. I too have lost a son and I know that there are no words that will ease the pain of this loss. However, I do want you to know that you are in my prayers... May God bless and keep you, give you comfort and peace in this time of sorrow.
From: Diane
Re: Jared
Dear Lisa and Family. I am so sad to hear about Jared. My heart is breaking for you. I know that God has him in the palm of his hand now, and he is completely healed! Thank you so much for keeping up with the news and including us in your updates. We're still praying for your family, for comfort and peace.
Love,
Diane
From: Karen B. (Dr. Reddy's Assistant)
Re: Jared
Hey Lisa. So sweet to hear from you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all through this time of adjustment. Jared was such a special wonderful child. You guys were truly blessed to have such a wonderful family and with your good memories, I know you will be fine. Time will help but may not ever feel as though you are "healed". There will always be something missing, but we just have to think about that sweet smile and sweet boy and the many special moments you had with him, even at the end. Be sure to tell William and Adam we send our love too. If you want to talk, anytime, please call me. I'm here for you. I love you guys and hope I will still get to see you sometime.
Love,
Karen
From: Janet
Re: Jared
We love you and are praying for each one of you. Stand Still and see the Hand of God... You have been asked of God to do a great and mighty deed. May He bless and keep you in His hands as He works thru each of you.
Love,
Tom, Janet, Melynn, Kimie, April
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